Dads and Doulas
Many men fear that having a doula will take away some of the intimacy of birth, or that they may be displaced and left out of the birthing experience altogether. This is not the case. Doulas work with the daddies, too, giving them confidence and information when they need it, and even a break when the labor is long and they want to rest but are concerned about leaving the mother without support.
Also, doulas can take the pressure off of dads who are a bit squeamish about the labor process and allow them to relax and enjoy the birth by filming and taking pictures instead feeling a pressure to preform in a way he is not equipped to handle.
Either way, the doula will compensate and provide the support where it is needed, so that BOTH partners feel close, involved, and bonded together as a new family.
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